sometimes when driving the motor revs high and acts like its in neutral. and how do you pull the dipstick out? the owners manuel said the trans is sealed and you have to take it to the dealer, this cant be true...

 

unfortunately that is dreadfully true. no transmission dipstick is absolutely ridiculous.
mine was doing the same with revving high.
luckily i was close to home though when i heard shredding metal about 2 months after the first signs and had to buy a new transmission